With Valentine’s Day fast approaching, many couples are preparing to celebrate love in unique ways. Traditionally, men take the lead—buying gifts, planning romantic dates, and making grand gestures to show appreciation for their partners.
However, Zari Hassan, a star of Young, Famous & African, is calling for a change. She encourages women to break the norm and put effort into making their partners feel special. “One thing I can tell ladies, this Valentine’s, it’s not about our men giving us,” she stated. “We need to give back. It’s a two-way thing.”
Her statement has sparked discussions about the expectations surrounding Valentine’s Day. In many relationships, women eagerly anticipate gifts and surprises but rarely think about reciprocating the effort.
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Why Giving Back Matters in Relationships
A healthy relationship thrives on mutual effort. When one partner constantly gives without receiving, it can create feelings of imbalance. Showing love should not be one-sided. Simple gestures—such as planning a surprise dinner, gifting something meaningful, or even writing a heartfelt letter—can make a difference.
Men also enjoy being pampered, though they may not always express it. While some might appreciate a physical gift, others value experiences, kind words, or acts of service. The key is understanding what makes your partner feel loved and appreciated.
How Women Can Celebrate Their Partners
If you’re unsure how to give back this Valentine’s Day, here are a few ideas:
- Plan a surprise date – Take the lead in organizing a romantic outing.
- Give a thoughtful gift – Something personal, meaningful, or related to his interests.
- Express appreciation – A heartfelt letter or a simple “thank you” can go a long way.
- Create a special experience – Cook his favorite meal, arrange a spa day, or do something he loves.
Zari Hassan has raised the bars high and we await what Shakib Cham is getting this time as a surprise for the valentine’s day.